Accept The Reality?

Don't you find it a constant struggle, even painful, to accept reality? It's a journey that can alter our decisions, goals, and even our very understanding of the world. I don't know about you, but it's hard for me to accept.

Accept the Reality? :

I have a friend who is different from the world. That doesn't mean he is Autistic or mentally challenged. He is a normal human with a different perspective. When I approach him to share my worries, he constantly lectures me to accept reality and move on. It would be best if you didn't get depressed. It is what it is—be Cold.

After numerous conversations, I consciously decided to adopt a more detached approach and actively sought ways and inspiration to do so. Fortunately, I found what I was looking for in unexpected places like My Name Series (a K-drama) and Anime. This marked the beginning of my new, unending quest to become the Strongest.

I was filled with rage, wanting to improve myself. My tolerance level increased, but my journey was empty: there was no peace, No Happiness. Moreover, I used to feel lonely.

Deep down, I want a peaceful, happy life surrounded by loving people. My life has become a battle with myself. Part of me is trying to be satisfied by doing a job I don't like, and a part of me is trying to push myself to do what I love to do.

My confidence was low,

my confusion was high,

my frustration was outrageous,

my pain was unbearable.

I don't know what I was doing. At that time, I heard what I needed from my Aunt.

She said, "I wanted you to have choices, doing whatever you like."

For some reason, "Doing whatever you like" echoed in my brain for a few seconds.

Her words are like magical water that helped a wilted bud to bloom.

She caught me in a weak moment and let my soul hear what I needed to hear. "She wants to see me, Soar."

My true self needed to be unlocked, so I started researching how to set goals. This led me to discover the concept of the 3 MIQs, a framework for setting and achieving goals. These 3MIQs helped me understand that doing whatever I wanted to do meant true freedom, the freedom to choose my path and create my own reality.

"My cage collapsed, and my wings got the movement." I started doing what I loved, rejecting reality and making my own.

The Reality Trap

Do you know, "We were taught to face reality before we knew we were creating reality..."

Reality is something -  that exists. Some are good, some are worse. We are talking about "The Worse Reality."

Why do we have to accept the mess that people created and live in it?

We know we have the power to choose, accept, or create.

Creating your own reality - It's about taking control of your life, making choices that align with your values and desires, and finding joy in the process. This is the path to true happiness and fulfillment.

Accept the Reality Vs. Create the Reality

Creating reality is filled with challenges, but you find them painless. As you know, they will come, and they will be solved. You see them as opportunities. You will be more energetic and have more vision.

People say the strongest are those who face reality. Then Elon Musk must be the weakest, isn't he? Because he didn't face reality, he created one.

All the Strongest people in the world are the ones who created reality for themselves.

Now, question yourself, does Accepting reality make you stronger, or does Rejecting and Creating reality make you stronger?

I won't argue with you if you're happy by accepting reality. But if you aren't satisfied, my friend, you must step back and find a way to be happy.

I wish to see a world filled with happiness without revenge and competition. Remember, There is always enough for everyone. Believe it, you will be. Don't believe it; you'll find the difference.

Bonus:

If you are struggling to find your Purpose, and you know you have a purpose but don't know what it is? I'll tell you.

Come, lend me your ear.

"Your Purpose is to live in a loop of Freedom, Joy, and Growth. Without any element, you will find a missing feeling. What do you think?

I hope you enjoy reading this. The comments section is open for discussion. Until then, Matane.